When we talk about sex toys, the conversation often centers around products for people with vulvas. But what about people with penises? If you’ve ever felt unsure about what’s available, how to use them, or where to begin, this beginner-friendly guide is for you. Whether you’re flying solo or exploring with a partner, there’s a wide variety of toys designed to enhance pleasure, boost confidence, and bring novelty into your sex life.

1. Strokers: The Starter Pack for Sensation Seekers
If you’re new to sex toys, strokers are a fantastic place to begin. These are soft, silicone sleeves with textured interiors that simulate a variety of sensations when used with lubricant. They’re simple, discreet, non-mechanical, and incredibly satisfying.
Pros: No batteries, beginner-friendly, easy to clean, travel-safe.
Try this: Look for options like the Tenga Egg or Lovetreats’ basic strokers — simple yet highly effective.
2. Vibrating Sleeves: Upgraded Solo Time
Not ready for a full-on vibrator but want more than manual stimulation? Vibrating sleeves offer the perfect middle ground. These combine the snug fit of a stroker with the thrill of vibration, creating new dimensions of pleasure.
3. Anal Toys: Explore New Territory Safely
Anal play can offer incredible sensations for people with penises — especially when it comes to prostate stimulation. But start slow and safe.
Start small: Try beginner-friendly anal plugs or beads.
Safety tip: Always use toys with a flared base to prevent them from slipping inside.
Try this: Lovetreats’ starter anal plug set or small vibrating anal toys for a gentle intro.
4. Penis Rings: Prolonged Pleasure
Cock rings (penis rings) are stretchy bands that go around the base of the penis to restrict blood flow, helping maintain erections for longer and intensifying orgasms.
Dual pleasure: Some come with vibrators to stimulate both partners during sex.
Try this: Durex’s Intense Vibe Ring — easy to find, budget-friendly, and perfect for first-time users.
5. Prostate Massagers: The Male G-Spot Toy
Once you’re comfortable with anal play, consider exploring prostate massagers. These are specifically shaped to stimulate the prostate, often described as a deeply satisfying, full-body kind of orgasm.
Try this: Look for models with curved shafts and vibration settings like the Lelo Hugo or Nexus Revo.
6. Oral Sex Simulators: Mimic the Real Thing
These high-tech toys are designed to replicate the sensations of oral sex using suction, vibration, and pulsation features. They're more of an investment but can provide uniquely intense stimulation.
Try this: Arcwave Ion or Autoblow AI —they’re pricier but offer an experience unlike anything else.
Where to Buy
If you’re wondering where to shop, here are a few discreet and trustworthy options:
Online: Kaamastra.com
Pharmacies: Many offer basic rings or lubes
Specialty Stores: Explore in person if you’re comfortable—staff can guide you without judgment
Final Tips for First-Timers
Use lube: always, especially with strokers and anal toys. Water-based lube is generally safest for most materials.
Clean your toys: Use mild soap and warm water or a sex-toy cleaner.
Take your time. It might take a few tries to find what you like — and that’s okay.
Consent and communication: If using with a partner, talk openly about boundaries and comfort levels.
Conclusion: There’s a Toy Out There for You
Exploring sex toys should be exciting, not intimidating. The key is to start with curiosity and an open mind. Whether you’re looking for more intense orgasms, new ways to connect with a partner, or just want to treat yourself, there’s a toy — or a few — that can bring your pleasure to the next level.